Today's Focus

Welcome to Day 3! You've learned to observe your breath and use counting as an anchor. Today, we're expanding your awareness to discover that breathing isn't just something that happens in your nose and chest; it's a whole-body experience that can help you feel more grounded and relaxed.


What You'll Learn

  • How breathing naturally moves through your entire torso

  • The three-dimensional quality of healthy breathing

  • How breath awareness can release physical tension

  • Why fuller breathing helps calm your nervous system


What to Expect

Normal Experiences:

  • Some areas are feeling more responsive than others

  • Difficulty "finding" certain parts of your body with your breath

  • Your breathing naturally becomes slower or deeper

  • Feeling more relaxed in your torso

  • Some areas remain tense despite attention

Positive Signs:

  • Any sense of expansion or softening anywhere in your body

  • Feeling more grounded or settled

  • Natural deepening of your breath

  • Increased awareness of your body's participation in breathing

  • Moments of feeling more spacious inside


Step-by-Step Instructions

  • Take your familiar position, sitting or lying down. As you settle in today, pay attention to how your body feels. Notice any areas of tension or tightness without trying to change them. Simply acknowledge your body as it is right now.

    Your body carries the story of your day so far. There's no need to fix anything, just notice with kindness.

  • Take three slightly deeper breaths to shift into practice mode. As you do this, notice not just your chest moving, but also:

    • Your ribs expanding outward

    • Your belly gently rising and falling

    • Your back body participating in the breath

    These transition breaths help you discover the fuller dimension of breathing.

  • Return to natural breathing and simply observe without changing anything. Notice which parts of your body move with each breath:

    • Does your chest rise and fall?

    • Does your belly expand and contract?

    • Can you feel your ribs widening?

    • What about your back, does it participate?

    There's no "correct" way to breathe. You're simply becoming curious about your body's natural wisdom.

  • Now we'll gently explore breathing into different areas of your body. This isn't about forcing air anywhere, it's about directing your attention and allowing your body to respond naturally.

    Minutes 1-2: Breathing into your back

    • Place your attention on your back body

    • Imagine breathing into your back ribs and spine

    • Notice if this area softens or expands even slightly

    • If nothing happens, that's perfectly fine, just maintain gentle attention there

    Minutes 3-4: Breathing into your sides

    • Focus on your side ribs and the space under your arms

    • Imagine breathing width into your body, like an accordion opening

    • Feel for any sense of expansion or softening in your sides

    • Allow whatever happens naturally

    Minute 5: Breathing into your whole torso

    • Imagine your entire torso, front, back, and sides, participating in breathing

    • Think of your breath as three-dimensional, filling your whole trunk

    • Notice how this fuller breathing might feel different from shallow chest breathing

    Remember: you're not forcing air anywhere. You're using your attention to invite your body's natural breathing capacity.

  • For the final minute and a half, simply observe your natural breathing without any guidance. Notice:

    • How your breathing feels now compared to when you started

    • Whether any areas of your body feel softer or more relaxed

    • If your breathing naturally feels fuller or deeper

    • Any overall sense of calm or groundedness

    Take three gentle breaths to close, appreciating your body's wisdom and your commitment to this practice.

Today's Reflection Questions

After completing your practice, take a moment to consider:

  • Which area of your body felt most responsive to your attention - chest, belly, back, or sides?

  • Did you notice any areas of tension softening during the practice?

  • How did the three-dimensional breathing feel different from your usual breathing?

  • What was it like to think of breathing as a whole-body experience rather than just chest or nose breathing?

  • How does your body feel right now compared to when you started?

Pay attention to subtle changes, they're often more significant than dramatic ones.


Today's Win

You're now three days into building a life-changing habit! Today, you discovered that your body has wisdom you might not have been aware of. Every moment you spend exploring your breathing is an investment in your long-term wellbeing and stress resilience.

Notice that you're developing not just mindfulness skills, but also a kinder, more curious relationship with your own body. This foundation will serve you in countless ways beyond these practice sessions.


Next Lesson’s Preview

Tomorrow you'll learn about using your breath as a reliable anchor, a place you can always return to when your mind gets busy or overwhelmed. This builds on today's body awareness to create an even stronger foundation for mindfulness.

For tonight: As you lie down to sleep, spend a few minutes breathing into your back body. Many people find this helps them feel more supported by the bed and can ease the transition into sleep.

Duration: 8 Minutes

Difficulty: Easy